Tuesday, June 23, 2009

A good reminder

Resentment builds and is a vicious cycle - "I'm not getting what I want/need, so I refuse to give you anything you want/need" Communication is broken, people either don't discuss the tough issues or they don't listen each other. Fights and arguments just make people shutdown and react in an automatic way.

A relationship is an entity - a living, breathing thing. You can't just create one and let it exist, believing it will survive and thrive on it's own. You have to be actively involved in making it work, just being present isn't enough.

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